Single, but careful when I mingle!

Are you single? I've been single by choice for quite a few years now and it was an amazing gift to gift myself. It was difficult at times to not be tempted to jump into something intimate and I didn't deny myself the oppurtunity for love.

I did decide to get to know myself, become accountable to myself and govern myself. As a hapless empath I have been victim to Narcissistic abuse in the past, so being vigilant I don't become manipulated or start making decisions through my own emotional thinking is the healthiest way for me to live a high quality of life despite my challenges.

If you have been knocked around in relationships and perhaps consider yourself unlucky in love, consider falling in love with giving yourself what it is you think a partner will give you that you are lacking. Delving into your own motives so deeply can be a frightening but liberating thing.

Please don't think I'm lonely or deprived of romantic encounters with amazing folks, it's all very mature because it must be. After trauma romance brings extra challenges and even if you have never been abused or hurt before I would advise CAUTION and PATIENCE when embarking on romantic adventures.

Are you careful, carefree or co-dependenant in love?

Have a lovely day

Loren xx